I’ve been thrown from a horse 2x times.
The first time I was about 10 years old. My grandfathers horse, Annie, bolted at the top of a hill and I was too small to hold on.
That hurt.
The second time I was about 13, learning how to show jump. My horse stopped dead on the second jump.
My body did not.
That hurt even more.
But the thing that hurt most was the knock to my confidence. The little voice in my head both times that told me that because I hadn’t managed to hold myself on this beast of an animal, I was inferior and therefore should never do what I love to do (ride) again.
The last time I fell, which would have been around 17 years ago, was actually quite bad. Like, body-bruised-terrified-to-get-back-on-the-horse-the-following-day, bad.
Did the trainer call my mum and dad? No.
Did they listen to me wimped and crying about not wanting to jump again?
No.
They made me get back on the horse.
Not a peep to my mum and dad.
Not a single get out of jail free card.
Today, I ride almost weekly and it’s one of the things that brings me so much joy in my life. Joy I have passed onto my daughter.
I’m telling you this because, we’ve all experienced our own version of being bucked off a horse.
We’ve all tried and failed a;
Job interviews
Dating
Businesses
Careers
Friendships
Marriages…
In short, life is hard. Failure is inevitable. Pain is guaranteed. And you will suck at 90% of the things you try and accomplish first time.
Get used to it. It’s all part of your story. And what a bloody great story you’ll have to tell your grand-babies one day when you can tell them all the times life kicked your ass, and all the times you kicked it right back.
Life isn’t about how many times you get thrown off, it’s about how many times you saddle back up.
Oh, and wear a helmet.
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