"Just be grateful you have a job."
That's what they tell you.
While your soul slowly dies at your desk.
Most of us gift years to jobs we hate.
The price? Everything you could become.
That Sunday dread you feel?
Your future is trying to tell you something.
You know you've stayed too long when:
β You're job hunting in bathroom stalls
β Your last promotion feels like ancient history
β You say "but it pays well" more than "I love this work"
Here's what nobody wants to say out loud:
It's OK to struggle.
It's OK to change direction.
It's OK to choose yourself.
What's not OK?
Gifting years to a job that's killing your spirit.
"Paying your dues" is yesterday's thinking.
Your dues are paid when you show up with effort and integrity.
Not when you sacrifice your potential for someone else's timeline.
If you're done waiting, start here:
1. Audit Your Energy
β³ Track what lights you up vs. drains you
β³ Find the pattern in your best days
2. Map Your Leverage
β³ List skills that travel anywhere
β³ Spot what makes you uniquely valuable
3. Start Small Experiments
β³ Chase projects that energize you
β³ Coffee with people doing work you want
4. Build Your Bridge
β³ Save 3-6 months of runway
β³ Learn skills the market rewards now
5. Set Your Exit Date
β³ Pick when you'll make your move
β³ Work backward from there
Your career isn't serving time.
It's designing a life.
And choosing yourself isn't selfish.
It's the only choice that matters.
What do you think others fear most in making a change?
Drop it below. π
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That's what they tell you.
While your soul slowly dies at your desk.
Most of us gift years to jobs we hate.
The price? Everything you could become.
That Sunday dread you feel?
Your future is trying to tell you something.
You know you've stayed too long when:
β You're job hunting in bathroom stalls
β Your last promotion feels like ancient history
β You say "but it pays well" more than "I love this work"
Here's what nobody wants to say out loud:
It's OK to struggle.
It's OK to change direction.
It's OK to choose yourself.
What's not OK?
Gifting years to a job that's killing your spirit.
"Paying your dues" is yesterday's thinking.
Your dues are paid when you show up with effort and integrity.
Not when you sacrifice your potential for someone else's timeline.
If you're done waiting, start here:
1. Audit Your Energy
β³ Track what lights you up vs. drains you
β³ Find the pattern in your best days
2. Map Your Leverage
β³ List skills that travel anywhere
β³ Spot what makes you uniquely valuable
3. Start Small Experiments
β³ Chase projects that energize you
β³ Coffee with people doing work you want
4. Build Your Bridge
β³ Save 3-6 months of runway
β³ Learn skills the market rewards now
5. Set Your Exit Date
β³ Pick when you'll make your move
β³ Work backward from there
Your career isn't serving time.
It's designing a life.
And choosing yourself isn't selfish.
It's the only choice that matters.
What do you think others fear most in making a change?
Drop it below. π
βββ
β»οΈ Repost to help your network put themselves first.
Follow Jonathan Whipple for more.