After dinner waiters typically try to sell me desert by saying “Would you like dessert?”
I always say no.
But that’s not what happened at True Food Kitchen in Boca Raton, Fl.
Here’s what the server said instead:
“Do you hate pie?”
That killer line made me smile.
Chris Voss calls this a “no-orientated” question.
Here’s Voss:
“People feel anxious when they sense you are seeking a yes. People feel safe and secure when they say no.”
Me: “Who hates pie -:)”
Server: “We’re going to get along just fine. So I’ve served a lot of pies. But our squash pie is so amazing that I fight over it with my girlfriend. There’s never a crumb left. If you’d like I can see if we have any slices left.”
Sold.
My wife and I fought over the pie too. And I don’t like squash.
Selling is a transfer of confidence.
Some of the best salespeople are servers.
I always say no.
But that’s not what happened at True Food Kitchen in Boca Raton, Fl.
Here’s what the server said instead:
“Do you hate pie?”
That killer line made me smile.
Chris Voss calls this a “no-orientated” question.
Here’s Voss:
“People feel anxious when they sense you are seeking a yes. People feel safe and secure when they say no.”
Me: “Who hates pie -:)”
Server: “We’re going to get along just fine. So I’ve served a lot of pies. But our squash pie is so amazing that I fight over it with my girlfriend. There’s never a crumb left. If you’d like I can see if we have any slices left.”
Sold.
My wife and I fought over the pie too. And I don’t like squash.
Selling is a transfer of confidence.
Some of the best salespeople are servers.