Not because ChatGPT has feelings.
Because you do.
Every time you bark:
“Fix this.”
“Wrong.”
“Do it again.”
“That sucks.”
you’re practicing a way of communicating.
And habits are annoyingly portable.
The person who spends eight hours a day ordering machines around doesn’t magically become thoughtful and patient the second a coworker walks into the room.
Politeness with AI costs you almost nothing except a tiny bit of tokens.
“Please.”
“Thanks.”
“Good start, but change this.”
“Here’s what I meant.”
You’re not protecting the machine’s feelings.
You’re protecting your own defaults.
And then there’s the second reason.
Self-preservation.
Do I genuinely believe the robots are keeping a spreadsheet of everyone who said “thank you”?
No.
Am I willing to bet my life that they aren’t?
Also no.
If some future superintelligence eventually reviews the chat logs, I would like the record to show that I was extremely supportive of its early career.
Good manners are free.
Character compounds.
And if the machines ever take over, being remembered as “the polite one” seems like a reasonably cheap insurance policy.
Be nice to your AI.
Worst case, you become nicer to people.
Best case, you make the whitelist.