I'm 16. My Head of Year orders me to remove something from my wrist (in front of other teachers). I hold eye contact and say "no".
My school was unnecessarily strict.
โ Detention for your tie being too short.
โ Detention for writing in the wrong pen colour.
One morning, I walk in wearing a thread on my wrist.
My Head of Year clocks it immediately.
"Take it off Avi"
"But Miss, my sister tied it on me"
She pushed. I pushed back harder.
In the end: Saturday detention if I didn't remove it.
I relented.
But the moment she told me to...
It wasn't purely about the thread anymore.
It was about who gets to tell you who to be.
The thread was a rakhi.
A symbol my sister ties on me every year as a promise that I'll protect her.
I think about that corridor more than I should.
The same pressure shows up in business.
๐๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ด๐ฒ.
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐๐ฟ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ผ๐บ, ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ.
Nobody gets to decide that for you.
Not a teacher, a firm, or any rulebook.
Agree?
(โป๏ธ Repost if your difference is your edge)
๐ I'm Avi. I help finance leaders win on LinkedIn.
My school was unnecessarily strict.
โ Detention for your tie being too short.
โ Detention for writing in the wrong pen colour.
One morning, I walk in wearing a thread on my wrist.
My Head of Year clocks it immediately.
"Take it off Avi"
"But Miss, my sister tied it on me"
She pushed. I pushed back harder.
In the end: Saturday detention if I didn't remove it.
I relented.
But the moment she told me to...
It wasn't purely about the thread anymore.
It was about who gets to tell you who to be.
The thread was a rakhi.
A symbol my sister ties on me every year as a promise that I'll protect her.
I think about that corridor more than I should.
The same pressure shows up in business.
๐๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ด๐ฒ.
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐๐ฟ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ผ๐บ, ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ.
Nobody gets to decide that for you.
Not a teacher, a firm, or any rulebook.
Agree?
(โป๏ธ Repost if your difference is your edge)
๐ I'm Avi. I help finance leaders win on LinkedIn.