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When I visit friends, they say:
- “You’ve got the dream life.”
- “You’re your own boss.”
- “You make good money and love what you do.”

What they see:
Freedom. Flexibility. Success.

What they don’t see:
- No real weekends.
- The endless loop of learning and adapting.
- The overthinking before even deciding to take a break.
- The insecurities that quietly drive every move.

As Zora Neale Hurston once wrote:
“People see what they want to see and hear what they want to hear.”

I’m not complaining, I chose this life, and I’m grateful for it. But it’s funny how the story people tell themselves often skips the hard parts.

While many people study algorithms and use fancy terms like trend jacking, analytics, CTR, and hashtags, a few guys in Chennai, who seemingly knew none of these, are dominating YouTube like no one else.

The channel I’m talking about is ‘VJ Siddhu Vlogs’.

- 201 VIDEOS
- SUBSCRIBERS 2.79M
- Video Views: 464,641,94

Their secret?

AUTHENTICITY:

There are three types of creators:

- Those who act differently in front of the camera.
- Those who are half themselves and half a camera persona.
- Those who are exactly the same on and off-camera.

Since my content is educational, I fall into the second category. I can't do everything I do off-camera in my videos.

What worked for VJ Siddhu was being in the third category. They didn’t do things just for vlogging; they did things and happened to vlog them.

STORY:

And these guys become so popular without much hate on social media? That’s almost like winning the lottery twice—nearly impossible.

What worked was the story. The story of the man ‘VJ Siddhu’.

There are two ways to put your story out there:

- either you talk about it (which I do) or
- or make the world talk about it.

VJ Siddhu chose the second one, as he was someone who had failed back-to-back in front of the world, and the world always wants such an underdog to win.

RELATABILITY:

Their videos, which easily get over a million views, resonate with people who see themselves in the content.

Their total addressable market is huge.

- Anyone with a group of friends can relate to their content.
- Anyone who wishes for such friendships can relate.
- Anyone who once had such friendships can relate.

VJ Siddhu didn’t just become another influencer, he became a household name because he didn't create content just for vlogging. He was simply himself and happened to vlog it.

Although they often mention their lack of social media knowledge in their videos, I believe the team knows a lot about content, marketing, branding, and storytelling.

They’re not just funny, they’re smart. As a fellow creator, I have immense respect for the work they’ve put in.

In the past six months, I have spent three months in Chennai and three months in Bangalore.

- In Chennai, I got caught in the worst cyclone in decades, and my car went for a swim.
- In Bangalore, I experienced a water shortage like never before.

You might think I'm unluckier than RCB. But I also post tons of videos about staying positive and appreciating life.

Does this make me a fake? Nope. I just believe in something else.

If something bad happens and it’s out of our control, maybe it’s saving us from something worse.

That doesn't mean we just sit back and do nothing. But if we can't control it, we can control our attitude.

Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change.

Now that I’m in Tirunelveli, I’m not sure what's going to happen here! XD

HIDDEN RESOURCE ALERT!!

Here's something you can learn more from than all the books, podcasts, and courses combined.

It's from something very peculiar, and there is nothing like it.
It is from within.

Am I a monk? I wish, but I'm not.

Sure, books and podcasts teach us a lot. But what really intrigues me is learning about myself every day.

We can call this self-awareness.

If you had told me to do this, I probably wouldn't have, as it sounds superficial.

But trust me, once you sit down and reflect on who you are, what you like, and what your childhood was like, you'll uncover long-forgotten thoughts.

This will help you understand yourself better.

And boy, you will be surprised.

Creating content makes me reflect a lot on myself, which I might have missed otherwise. I still have a long way to go.

Self-awareness is quite the revelation.


PS: Attaching an irrelevant picture as an incentive for LinkedIn to boost the reach.

People Don’t Consume Content—They Consume Emotions

Let me break this to you gently:

Your content isn’t boring. It’s just… not making anyone feel anything.
I’ve been there. I’ve posted stuff so dull it couldn’t even wake up a bot.

But here’s the truth:
- People scroll because they’re hunting for emotion.

Think about it:
- A meme makes them laugh.
- A motivational post makes them dream big (for like 30 seconds).
- A shocking fact makes them furious.

Emotions drive every like, comment, and share. So, if your content isn’t landing, it’s not the algorithm.

It’s because it’s not sparking curiosity, joy, or nostalgia.

Trust me, I’ve made more lifeless posts than I care to admit.

But when I started creating with emotion in mind, things changed.

So, next time you hit post, ask yourself:
“Will this make someone feel something?”

I'm scared.

I want to build a product, teach storytelling, and learn how to backflip.

I know I can achieve these things, but I haven’t started. Why not?

Fear.

But is it really fear, or am I just convincing myself that I’m scared?

Many of us have dreams and ambitions, yet we share a common reason for not pursuing them: FEAR.

- Fear of failure.
- Fear of uncertainty.
- Fear of what others might think.
- Fear of fear.

This is understandable.

- To avoid the fear of uncertainty, our ancestors created agriculture so they wouldn't have to worry about having enough food.
- To avoid the fear of failure, we don't try new things.
- To avoid the fear of what others think, we don't step out of the crowd.

But there are people who, despite these fears, go after what they truly want.
How do they do it?

The answer lies here: https://lnkd.in/gPn2xDtt

Everyone told me short-form was the future.

- “Keep it under 60 seconds“
- “People's attention spans are shrinking“
- “Long-form is dead“

But here's what actually happened:

Started with 60-second clips.
Now? My audience sits through 2-hour conversations.

The shift wasn't planned. I was just as surprised as anyone.

What changed?
It wasn't the platform. It wasn't the algorithm. It was the connection.

Short-form got people's attention. Long-form kept it.

Because:
- Stories need space to breathe
- Context adds meaning
- Real conversations can't be rushed

The most interesting part? The same people who liked my 30-second clips now message saying “I finished your 2-hour podcast in one sitting.“

It taught me something: People don't have an attention problem. They have a connection problem.

Give them something worth their time, and time becomes irrelevant.