In 20 years, we'll look back at gender wage gaps the same way we look at smoking on airplanes now.
Fucking insane that it was ever allowed.
I grew up in a house where my mom was the breadwinner.
She was a geologist.
Made six figures.
My dad stayed home with me until I was 7.
And I never thought it was weird.
Not once.
It was just... normal.
Fast forward to today.
I'm building a business with my wife - we crossed $200K in the last 12 months - and she's one of the hardest working, most talented, most driven people I know.
Not "for a woman."
Just period.
But I keep hearing these stories.
Women afraid to take maternity leave because it might kill their career.
Women being passed over because employers see them as a "liability."
Women doing the same work for less money and being told it's just "how things are."
And every time I hear it, I feel this weird mix of sadness, anger and confusion.
Because how is this still a conversation?
Especially now.
When dual incomes aren't optional anymore.
When the cost of living has skyrocketed.
When we 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 everyone working at full capacity just to keep up.
The math doesn't even make sense.
Let alone the morality of it.
I don't have some grand solution here.
No five-step plan to fix systemic inequality.
This post isn't about that.
It's real.
And it's bullshit.
And if you're someone reading this thinking "how the fuck is this still happening?"
You're not alone.
I guess I'm just lucky I get to build something with someone who never had to justify her seat at the table.
She sat down and got to work.
The way it should be for everyone.
Fucking insane that it was ever allowed.
I grew up in a house where my mom was the breadwinner.
She was a geologist.
Made six figures.
My dad stayed home with me until I was 7.
And I never thought it was weird.
Not once.
It was just... normal.
Fast forward to today.
I'm building a business with my wife - we crossed $200K in the last 12 months - and she's one of the hardest working, most talented, most driven people I know.
Not "for a woman."
Just period.
But I keep hearing these stories.
Women afraid to take maternity leave because it might kill their career.
Women being passed over because employers see them as a "liability."
Women doing the same work for less money and being told it's just "how things are."
And every time I hear it, I feel this weird mix of sadness, anger and confusion.
Because how is this still a conversation?
Especially now.
When dual incomes aren't optional anymore.
When the cost of living has skyrocketed.
When we 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 everyone working at full capacity just to keep up.
The math doesn't even make sense.
Let alone the morality of it.
I don't have some grand solution here.
No five-step plan to fix systemic inequality.
This post isn't about that.
It's real.
And it's bullshit.
And if you're someone reading this thinking "how the fuck is this still happening?"
You're not alone.
I guess I'm just lucky I get to build something with someone who never had to justify her seat at the table.
She sat down and got to work.
The way it should be for everyone.