My business got easier the moment I stopped needing every deal to close.
That sounds like a small thing.
It isn't.
For years, I was overly invested in the outcome.
Not in a bad way. I genuinely cared about my clients.
Still do.
But caring about someone's outcome and needing it are two different things.
When I needed it, I could feel it.
And they could feel it.
The moment I detached from the result and just focused on the work, the questions, the honesty, the willingness to stay in the room...
Everything in my business changed.
More calls.
More conversations.
More people saying yes.
Not because I pushed harder.
Because I stopped pushing alltogehter.
The guys who are right for this work find their way here.
The ones who aren't, I trust them to know that too.
That's not indifference.
That's confidence.
There's a difference between them.
That sounds like a small thing.
It isn't.
For years, I was overly invested in the outcome.
Not in a bad way. I genuinely cared about my clients.
Still do.
But caring about someone's outcome and needing it are two different things.
When I needed it, I could feel it.
And they could feel it.
The moment I detached from the result and just focused on the work, the questions, the honesty, the willingness to stay in the room...
Everything in my business changed.
More calls.
More conversations.
More people saying yes.
Not because I pushed harder.
Because I stopped pushing alltogehter.
The guys who are right for this work find their way here.
The ones who aren't, I trust them to know that too.
That's not indifference.
That's confidence.
There's a difference between them.