Iâm 39.
27 lessons I wish I learned in my 20s:
1. As soon as you hit your 30s, youâll understand... Your 20s actually suck. If you feel like it sucks right now, guess what? Itâs supposed to. It gets better.
2. Your first job is like the DMV. Awful. Everyoneâs mad. Nothing works. But the key is.. You are not supposed to stay there.
3. It is very hard to change the world when you are broke. So don't apologize for chasing money.
4. Meet everyone. Say yes to everything. You narrow the field later.
5. Do it all. Because youâll die eventually and life will make you slow down. But up until then, eat the world.
6. You are not everyoneâs cup of tea, thatâs a good thing.
7. The most lucrative things you can do in your 20s: 1) learn how to invest, 2) apprentice in PE, real estate, or venture.
8. If theyâre not interesting when youâre sober, donât drink until they become it.
9. Never buy to impress. Being wealthy > looking wealthy⌠even when that first big-kid check hits your bank account.
10. The most important question you can ask yourself often: Does this bring joy?
11. Do favors, donât take them. Thereâs often a hidden price.
12. If I was in my 20s, Iâd try to work for one type of company⌠One where they reward outcomes not hours. Winning > running really hard for a really long time.
13. Seed is only as good as its soil. Where you live during your 20s matters. Take some time away from your hometown.
14. If you feel cynical about the world⌠I donât blame you. But always remember the number one superpower for your generation is HOPE.
15. If youâre prone to loneliness and isolation.. do NOT work a remote job. A small team with sleepless nights and shared goals is a powerful thing.
16. Touch grass. A walk outside will be better for your brain than anything you find on your phone.
17. Burnout doesnât come from working too hard. Burnout comes from working too hard, on things that donât light you up.
18. Learn how to save now, but understand that saving isnât what makes you rich.
19. If you want to make more money, be more useful to people who have more money.
20. You must learn to be disliked or you will find yourself stuck in a prison of other people's beliefs.
21. Most successful people I've met aren't that smart. They move fast, they take risk, they work a lot. That's it.
22. If old you doesnât make you cringe, you havenât grown enough.
23. Do something hard every day. Then watch that âsomethingâ evolve as you become stronger and stronger.
24. If you havenât done it, you just have an opinion.
25. Marrying well is the biggest life hack of all. Marrying poorly is a costly path to misery. Choose wisely.
26. Working smarter not harder is a beautiful lie. You will not know how to work smart until you've worked very hard for an irrationally long time.
27. Take notes from old people⌠Waking up early, being married, reading books, going to bed at 10pm, and drinking less is actually amazing.