Kumud Deepali Rudraraju, SHRM-CP

“Live Your Life for YOU“

Feel like you're living your life for others, constantly trying to meet their expectations? I’ve been there.

For years, I overthought everything, fearing judgment and rejection. I became a people pleaser, shaping my life to fit the mold others created for me. I thought that by impressing them, I could control how they viewed me.

But in trying to please everyone, I lost myself. No matter how hard I tried, there was always someone who judged or criticized. Then it hit me—people will judge no matter what.

Whether you live for them or for yourself, they’ll still have opinions. Life is too short to worry about pleasing everyone.

Instead:
🖤 Accept yourself.
🖤 Do what makes you happy.
🖤 Live for you, not others.

At the end of the day, you’re not here to impress anyone but yourself.

What’s one thing you’d do today if you weren’t afraid of judgment? Let me know in the comments!

Want to build an awesome team? Start by hiring people with high emotional intelligence (EQ).


A few years ago, I was interviewing for a role in our HR team. One candidate stood out—not because of their impressive resume, but because of how they handled the interview.

They listened carefully, asked thoughtful questions, and when they didn’t know an answer, they admitted it and shared how they’d approach learning it.

That honesty and self-awareness won me over. They ended up becoming a key player in our department, always diffusing tough situations with empathy and understanding.

Emotional intelligence helps people:
▶ Understand how others feel.
▶ Communicate better and handle feedback.
▶ Build strong relationships.
▶ Solve problems calmly under pressure.
▶ Work as a team and lead with compassion.

How can you spot someone with high EQ? Look for these signs:
▶ They listen more than they speak.
▶ They admit when they don’t know something.
▶ They learn from mistakes and grow.
▶ They support others and stay positive.

How can you be one? Focus on these habits:
▶ Practice active listening.
▶ Be open to feedback.
▶ Show empathy and understanding.
▶ Stay calm in stressful situations.

Hiring people with high EQ is like adding glue to your team—it holds everything together. It leads to better teamwork, less conflict, and more success for everyone. Do you agree?

Share your thoughts in the comments below. 👇

You can't build a brilliant team if you're scared of brilliance.

But here's what most leaders miss:
It's not your IQ that conquers this fear.
It's your EQ.

True emotional intelligence helps you:

1. See Brilliance Clearly
↳ Beyond just technical skills
↳ Beyond your own expertise
→ In ways that complement, not threaten

2. Create Safety for Genius
↳ Make it safe to challenge ideas
↳ Turn disagreement into dialogue
→ Let innovation breathe freely

3. Transform Competition to Collaboration
↳ Channel diverse talents into shared goals
↳ Build on each other's strengths
→ Create collective brilliance

Because the truth is:
Strong leaders don't dim others to shine.
They use their EQ to amplify everyone's light.

Your team's brilliance isn't a threat to your leadership.
It's proof of it.

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What’s the Secret to Boosting Creativity and Focus at Work?


🚶‍♀️‍➡️ 🚶‍➡️ Walking.
Steve Jobs believed in the power of walking meetings, and for good reason.
Inspired by that, I started incorporating walking into my workday—and it’s been transformative.

A quick stroll clears my head, sparks creativity, and gives me the boost I need to tackle the rest of the day. It’s not about big changes—just small steps (literally).

Here’s how I make it work:
- A 10-minute walk after lunch to reset my focus.
- Walking meetings to brainstorm fresh ideas.
- Setting reminders to take a short stroll every two hours.

Since adopting this habit, I’ve felt sharper, less stressed, and more productive.
What’s your go-to method for staying inspired during the day? Would love to hear! 👟