Two weeks ago, I had one of those weeks that put me back in the mental state of the beginning of the pandemic when everything felt hard and unpredictable.
My wonderful EA who I rely on to keep me on the straight and narrow (and on time to meetings), Belinda, has been out, my daughterās school was closed due to COVID, and our nanny that helps with our 8-month-old got sick.
All this resulted in me working from home and picking up daytime child care shifts. I worked from home for a big chunk of the week, which Iām not used to.
Additionally, my WFH space is also my daughterās playroom.Ā Iām not going to kick her out because itās her room. She talks to herself as she plays - lots of great conflict resolution among Lego animals.
So, needless to say, she made several guest appearances on my calls this week.
One of those calls was during the graduation of our latest Building Manager Mastery class. If you arenāt familiar, we offer manager training for recently promoted managers or people new to Outreach and coming in as a manager.
In the middle of the graduation, my daughter came up and said hi and leaned her head on my arm, so I paused the conversation and introduced her. After the call was done, someone thanked me for introducing her and for showing itās okay to have children as part of your work lifeānormalizing it.
If you have kids, thereās a good chance they visit your calls from time to time. Introduce them, make them part of the callāthey are a part of who you are and who you are matters to us at Outreach.
I am finding that this life-work integration is a bit different than the concept of life-work balance. Integration means including what is true and real for you. Balance happens over the long-run rather than on a day to day basis. This week was not balanced, but it did reflect what was true for me.
I am grateful we have had a good run in my family of no covid exposures, but this was a strong reminder we arenāt all the way there yet.
WFH can be hard; give yourself grace and give grace to others. Iām still hoping the day is coming where we can be back together in person safely.
Until then, stay safe, be real, and enjoy the kid-cameos.
My wonderful EA who I rely on to keep me on the straight and narrow (and on time to meetings), Belinda, has been out, my daughterās school was closed due to COVID, and our nanny that helps with our 8-month-old got sick.
All this resulted in me working from home and picking up daytime child care shifts. I worked from home for a big chunk of the week, which Iām not used to.
Additionally, my WFH space is also my daughterās playroom.Ā Iām not going to kick her out because itās her room. She talks to herself as she plays - lots of great conflict resolution among Lego animals.
So, needless to say, she made several guest appearances on my calls this week.
One of those calls was during the graduation of our latest Building Manager Mastery class. If you arenāt familiar, we offer manager training for recently promoted managers or people new to Outreach and coming in as a manager.
In the middle of the graduation, my daughter came up and said hi and leaned her head on my arm, so I paused the conversation and introduced her. After the call was done, someone thanked me for introducing her and for showing itās okay to have children as part of your work lifeānormalizing it.
If you have kids, thereās a good chance they visit your calls from time to time. Introduce them, make them part of the callāthey are a part of who you are and who you are matters to us at Outreach.
I am finding that this life-work integration is a bit different than the concept of life-work balance. Integration means including what is true and real for you. Balance happens over the long-run rather than on a day to day basis. This week was not balanced, but it did reflect what was true for me.
I am grateful we have had a good run in my family of no covid exposures, but this was a strong reminder we arenāt all the way there yet.
WFH can be hard; give yourself grace and give grace to others. Iām still hoping the day is coming where we can be back together in person safely.
Until then, stay safe, be real, and enjoy the kid-cameos.