Rebecca Schocker

I’m not a perfect person

I’ve made quite a few mistakes in my life

A few stupid decisions

Pushed things to the edge

Walked the line

Hurt people

You know the gambit

Although many of you think I am perfect, I am not

A perfectionist, yes (working on it)

I will always be working on myself and continuing to develop deeper meaning of my life

I’ve made peace with my mistakes

I’ve owned it

I’ve taken responsibility

I’ve learned from it

I don’t identify with it

I’m 90%😇

My point is…….

Make peace with yourself

Stop mentally beating yourself up

Quit blaming yourself

You’re not supposed to know all the answers

You are human

You’re meant to enjoy life

I’m not saying to makes excuses for continuous shitty behavior

Change the parts of you, you don’t like

Weed out the traits that are holding you back

Let go of guilt and shame

Each year I pick a word to represent what I want for my life:

2021-let’s have fun
2022-the year to do
2023-all about me
2024-simplify

2025-IT’S TIME TO THRIVE🎉🎉🎉

If you’re ready to THRIVE and making a lasting change, comment THRIVE below and I’ll send you a private dm

#mindset #coaching #thrivein25

How many friends do you have?

Like true salt of the earth friends?

In this digital world it’s amazing that we can all be connected instantaneously with the touch of a button📲

Yet, I see so many lonely people

And we all know how hard it can be to make friends the older you get

Are you…..

~Eager to genuinely connect with others but don’t know how?

~Wanting that deep connection with someone?

~ Desiring more fulfillment from the relationships you do have?

Fun fact:

I have 3 girl friends👯‍♀️
I keep my circle small on purpose

~1 from high school

~1 when I moved to Utah

~1 who was my college bestie

We can go months without speaking and still pickup right where we left off. I call these true friends🫶🏽

Connection is huge for all of us. It’s what us humans need in order to thrive♾️

I’ll admit I’m a bit of a hermit but I recognize the importance of building quality connections

Here are my NO’s for connecting

🚫 Superficial conversations that lack intelligence

🚫 Gossiping about others

🚫 Talking only about yourself

🚫 Bragging

🚫 Using artificial, everyday run of the mill sentences

These are just a few

This is how I do connect effortlessly with people:

✅ Show genuine interest

✅ Listen to what they are not saying

✅ Understand the emotion and intentions behind what they are conveying

✅ Share valuable insight or support

✅ Offer positive feedback and boost their confidence

✅ Believe every person that comes into your life comes for a reason

✅ Serve them

✅ Show gratitude

How do you connect with others?👇

#Networking #Connections #Relationships #ProfessionalGrowth #LinkedIn