PEOPLE TO ATTRACT AND AVOID IN YOUR LIFE
Life is too short to surround yourself with the wrong people. In this video, I reflect on how to choose the people you should welcome into your life, and the people you should eliminate from your life. I propose three simple tests to evaluate people - peers, family, significant others, co-workers:
1. Saying to Doing Ratio: Does the person just talk, or do they get stuff done.
2.Taking to Giving Ratio: Is the person primarily a taker, or a giver?
3. Negativity to Positivity Ratio: Does the person radiate positive energy or does (s)he drain your energy?
The total score on these ratios = the Avoid/Attract Ratio for a person. I hope this is a useful guide for you to make better choices about the people you want to surround yourself with!
#lifelessons #people #advice #relationshipadvice
Life is too short to surround yourself with the wrong people. In this video, I reflect on how to choose the people you should welcome into your life, and the people you should eliminate from your life. I propose three simple tests to evaluate people - peers, family, significant others, co-workers:
1. Saying to Doing Ratio: Does the person just talk, or do they get stuff done.
2.Taking to Giving Ratio: Is the person primarily a taker, or a giver?
3. Negativity to Positivity Ratio: Does the person radiate positive energy or does (s)he drain your energy?
The total score on these ratios = the Avoid/Attract Ratio for a person. I hope this is a useful guide for you to make better choices about the people you want to surround yourself with!
#lifelessons #people #advice #relationshipadvice