The hate gets louder as you level up.
I lost sleep over hate comments.
I questioned if I should keep going.
I let strangers rent space in my head.
I remember the first time someone tore me apart publicly.
My hands were shaking as I read it.
I re-read it 10 times.
I showed my friends asking "is this true?"
I almost deleted everything that night.
Because no one prepared me for this part of building.
They told me about the wins.
The followers.
The revenue.
The freedom.
But they never mentioned the cost.
The people who will hate you for existing.
The strangers who will project their failures onto you.
The comments that make you question everything.
Here's the truth they should've told me:
Hate is a tax on success.
You can't grow without paying it.
The bigger you get, the louder it becomes.
And the only people who don't deal with hate?
The ones who stayed small enough to stay invisible.
So now when I see hate,
I don't spiral.
I see it as confirmation.
P.S. How do you deal with haters?