Recently one of my employees quit in a day.
A super sharp #mba graduate. Quiet, but observant. Excited to be back to work after a long maternity break.
As a female founder, I feel responsible to bring up women and give them a chance that others might not be willing to give so easily. I hired her. I offered her #wfh so that she could be around her kid and feel less guilty as she transitions back to the workforce.
But just in a day, she came to us and said that she would have to resign. Reason: Her husband and in-laws felt that it was a little too early for her to be with a laptop all day, instead of the baby. Based on her projected income, she had even arranged for a nanny before she joined us. But she was told that she was neglecting the child by leaving her with the nanny. Her husband said that “he”could not focus on “his” work as the child lingered around “his” wfh desk.
When asked about daycares, she replied- “Not allowed.” I could see the genuine pain in her eyes as she spoke, not knowing when she could be back and fully knowing that many of her MBA classmates are far ahead of her in their careers already.
I felt helpless.
In that moment, I felt that more than employers, families need to support women. Husbands and partners need to stand by them to make sure that these women can also build their careers fearlessly and more importantly, guilt-lessly!
#linkedin should celebrate families who support women careers, because, as unfortunate as it maybe, there are still large strata of our society where women either give up work or constantly struggle between guilt and ambition.
I am lucky 🧿 to have a husband who has been standing by me and my decisions for years now, since I met him in Indian Institute of Technology, Kharagpur . Also, having a similar career track has helped us both understand each other’s struggles, ambitions and required commitments. We both stayed away from civilization during our oilfield days, we both know that consulting involves crazy long work hours, and we both learnt that “personal life is just as important as professional” through our LEAD class at Harvard Business School . From sharing workload at home to sharing dreams and ambitions, having a supportive life-partner helps. A LOT.
I feel the best career decision of my life was to marry this boy! Touchwood.
#womeninbusiness
A super sharp #mba graduate. Quiet, but observant. Excited to be back to work after a long maternity break.
As a female founder, I feel responsible to bring up women and give them a chance that others might not be willing to give so easily. I hired her. I offered her #wfh so that she could be around her kid and feel less guilty as she transitions back to the workforce.
But just in a day, she came to us and said that she would have to resign. Reason: Her husband and in-laws felt that it was a little too early for her to be with a laptop all day, instead of the baby. Based on her projected income, she had even arranged for a nanny before she joined us. But she was told that she was neglecting the child by leaving her with the nanny. Her husband said that “he”could not focus on “his” work as the child lingered around “his” wfh desk.
When asked about daycares, she replied- “Not allowed.” I could see the genuine pain in her eyes as she spoke, not knowing when she could be back and fully knowing that many of her MBA classmates are far ahead of her in their careers already.
I felt helpless.
In that moment, I felt that more than employers, families need to support women. Husbands and partners need to stand by them to make sure that these women can also build their careers fearlessly and more importantly, guilt-lessly!
#linkedin should celebrate families who support women careers, because, as unfortunate as it maybe, there are still large strata of our society where women either give up work or constantly struggle between guilt and ambition.
I am lucky 🧿 to have a husband who has been standing by me and my decisions for years now, since I met him in Indian Institute of Technology, Kharagpur . Also, having a similar career track has helped us both understand each other’s struggles, ambitions and required commitments. We both stayed away from civilization during our oilfield days, we both know that consulting involves crazy long work hours, and we both learnt that “personal life is just as important as professional” through our LEAD class at Harvard Business School . From sharing workload at home to sharing dreams and ambitions, having a supportive life-partner helps. A LOT.
I feel the best career decision of my life was to marry this boy! Touchwood.
#womeninbusiness